The theory & practice of exceptionalism

The good thing about being human is you are part of a tribe. Always (Unless you decide to free yourself from the clutches of worldly living by retiring to a secluded forest) The not-so-good thing is that being so tribal exerts a centripetal force on your being.

What does that mean?

Moving away from the center of the tribe, to the center of your being.

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We live in a world of bell curves and percentiles where every aspect of our existence is unendingly compared to the average. Your career, station in life, values, your positions on major issues – all of it is examined in relation to a central point. Well-meaning folks will remind you to never stray from this “average” so that you can fit in and continue to draw from the community well. The moment you start moving towards the peripheries, eyebrows will be raised.

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One successful career move that could make all the difference

why the specialized generalist is the star of the future

Ever since humans moved out of caves and started settling and building civilizations, more and more professions have evolved to serve the needs created by advancements and aspirations. Did you know that most of the professions we know today are only about a 100 years old?

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Till about the first half of the 20th century, Generalist was King. The person who had the widest range of competencies and most number of skills had the ‘guru’ status. They held all the key positions, they had the respect of the world. They ruled.

 

Then a shift took place.

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Why ‘no legacy’ and ‘no mission’ are just as acceptable

If you like to learn and improve, you seek out principles to help you on the journey. Have you come across thought leaders, books and articles talking about the importance of legacy. Have yo been advised to reflect on the legacy you will leave behind. Perhaps you were exhorted to craft your own eulogy, as a way to get clarity on your legacy.

No legacy, no mission

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Another frequently peddled advice is the importance of identifying your purpose and mission in life. How many times have you heard claims that those who amount to anything in life have identified their purpose, crafted mission statements and then proceeded to do beautiful things?

It’s time to question these two enduring and ‘taken-as-self-evident-truth’ pieces of advice. Should you be so worried about what legacy you leave behind? Should you leave behind a legacy at all? Does each of our lives have a purpose? Is it that God has given us this life to fulfill a mission?

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lessons I wish I learnt five years back

Obscure now, obvious in hindsight

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This is a random rambling – a reflection of nuggets collected over half a decade – lessons learnt, experience gained. Here’s a key realization – what’s obscure in the present becomes obvious in hindsight!

Here‘s a collection on work and general existence:

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7 insights that will help you build confidence

Self-confidence: A strong sense of one’s self-worth and capabilities

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Here’s a fact of life-

All things being equal, self-confident people come out ahead of those who are not. Sometimes, all things not being equal, confident people still come out ahead.

You can be the most skilled, principled and solid person around, but without self-confidence, the world will not get the benefit of your brilliance.

Here are some insights to consider that will help you become more confident in yourself:

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